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Edit: I deleted it.
I'll post more about it later, but basically even though I feel totally justified, I also just don't want to stir up unnecessary animosity, and don't want to come off as a brat.
My intention was not to hurt Myrrh. (He's done enough of that on his own.) My intention was self-protection from accusations that I was making up stories. But, after a couple hours I decided it really wasn't all that important. The people who matter know the truth.That's all I need, right now.
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So, I got a little upset and posted this to facebook:
"The truth: Myrrh Larsen cheated on me with multiple women when we dated in 2008-2009, and again when we were involved in July-September of this year, and lied to me about every indiscretion (I am monogamous; he knows it). This is not "rumor", this is not "gossip," this is just fact. Thank you."
Please tell me why I should delete it.
I want the truth to be known, especially now that I'm learning that he is denying the truth and making me out to be a liar. [Edit: This may or may not be true. But a few of my good friends have assured me that he has not been shit-talking me or denying what happened, so I'm inclined to believe that, and that the problems are coming from elsewhere. Either way, it doesn't ultimately matter much.]
But, I don't want to do anything really out of line or inappropriate.
Help?
I'll post more about it later, but basically even though I feel totally justified, I also just don't want to stir up unnecessary animosity, and don't want to come off as a brat.
My intention was not to hurt Myrrh. (He's done enough of that on his own.) My intention was self-protection from accusations that I was making up stories. But, after a couple hours I decided it really wasn't all that important. The people who matter know the truth.That's all I need, right now.
...
So, I got a little upset and posted this to facebook:
"The truth: Myrrh Larsen cheated on me with multiple women when we dated in 2008-2009, and again when we were involved in July-September of this year, and lied to me about every indiscretion (I am monogamous; he knows it). This is not "rumor", this is not "gossip," this is just fact. Thank you."
Please tell me why I should delete it.
I want the truth to be known, especially now that I'm learning that he is denying the truth and making me out to be a liar. [Edit: This may or may not be true. But a few of my good friends have assured me that he has not been shit-talking me or denying what happened, so I'm inclined to believe that, and that the problems are coming from elsewhere. Either way, it doesn't ultimately matter much.]
But, I don't want to do anything really out of line or inappropriate.
Help?